Epiphany Tiffany

My storm is destructive, Yours fatal. I still fell in love, After how fragile I was, I was still able. You knew my past flaws and my biggest hurts. But promised me with those kind and calming words. That you wouldn’t be the same. But my heart feels the embers of what’s left of your Colorado wild fire flames.  You told me you wouldn’t leave no matter how hard it got. So my heart picked you and you threw it straight into a boiling pot.  And here I am left with the mess to clean up because of your insecurities. Turns out they all did that to me. But I still believed the lies that you spoke. Hoping that someone could contest to the doubts that I have come to know. But it turns out that I'm still right, Even when I wish that I would’ve been wrong, Being right doesn’t help me sleep any better at night. Because I’d rather be proved wrong a million times. Than to lose another lover in my life.  But you gave up on me and our dreams, Wh...

When you get grief for being yourself. Wanting to be free sometimes without catering to someone else. Because you deserve the time you get spend by yourself. You work so damn hard not to pay attention to you. Because you should be able to do anything you want to do,  Without giving someone else the power to dictate what is best or not for you.  Because you know your heart and soul is amazing. And this person will always be the only one complaining. Not allowing you to do simple things without a fight. Trying to force the words I love you down your throat and expecting you to say it back every time. But you keep giving chances. Because you can’t seem to wrap your own damn head around all of this madness.  Because you only see what’s good, not what’s bad. This is the problem and now look where you stand.  But the issue at hand isn’t "who I am". Yet they will always tell me ...

Today marks one year. For me being sober? No, that’s a negative. For us being together,  yes that it would’ve been. Cause I still sit  have a glass of wine or two. But not because I'm crying  anymore tears over you. These feelings aren't stemming  because I live with regrets. They are only because today, we’d be together for a year  if you didn’t do what you did. But I know that Gods timing  is better than mine. That’s why I have been solid  for all of this time. But it’s also human of me  to possess feelings like these. Especially because my heart was in it,  full heartedly. Just because a year together  is something we couldn’t have, Doesn’t mean I’m not going to remember the hurt,  Or feel sad. But a year is just a year  when you really think about it. And so much transpired in my life  without you in it. Yeah there were others that duped me Like you did this year. Like the first dude ...

"When it comes to criticism, there's no right or wrong. It's only a conflict between your choices and their judgments." -Tiffany Bales Have you ever felt upset or even hurt when someone who cares about you totally disagrees with you by criticizing you? Like, you say or do something that you are totally passionate about but get shut down like a twenty-four-hour power outage. And it seems as if that fire inside you is attempting to be put out, but by someone you love.  That totally stings right?  Yet somehow we do the same thing to others and aren't even realizing it. We are hurting the ones we love with criticism when all we think we are doing is trying to help. So there it is,  help ; that kind and effortless to the other person word. But there's a fine line between genuinely caring and criticizing. So how far does our willingness to help others end up burning ourselves and others out? Maybe that's the true issue at hand. Maybe trying to help only ...

T hey say that the rear view mirror is smaller than the windshield because what’s in front of you is more important than what’s behind, but when you’re en route to a progressive direction somehow you seem to focus on what you’re leaving behind. And while moving forward you find yourself looking back only because it’s comforting, but you don’t stop or turn around because you know going backwards will not take you to your next journey. And that journey happens the second you finally totally and completely allow your heart to heal. But in order to do that you got to get through the hardest part yet. The breakup grief. And grief happens in stages, only teaching us how to heal. So breakup grief works the same way, only to help you fully recuperate from the unbelievable breakup. The one that broke you into pieces only for you yourself to pick up. And that's when all the stages start to begin. The 5 Stages of Break Up Grief: Stage #1 Heartbreak. To get through all the stages of breakup gr...

"Don't downgrade your dream just to match your reality. Upgrade your conviction to match your destiny." - John Assaraf Resist the irresistible. And differentiate the impersonators. Evade from deception.  And absorb in all motivation.  Always be the inspiration. And never let the fear of rejection stop you from asking the question. Allow actions to define true perceptions. And don’t worry about what you can’t control, it’s not within your obligation. Allow yourself to always follow your heart. But do it gracefully and by being smart.  And always believe in yourself, No matter what type of cards you are dealt. Don’t ever underestimate,  always overcompensate. Just be who you are. Keep smiling even when you feel torn apart. And by all means when you love, do it with your entire heart.  Be kind and have compassion. You never know who you can help when you care about people in that kind of fashion.  Strive for success....

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