Is It a Blessing Or a Lesson?
Why do we feel the need to decode our feelings, relationships, friendships and dating, and label them as a lesson or a blessing? And these connections we try so hard to understand in full aspect. Why do people always say in the end that if it’s not a blessing, then it’s a lesson? I just don’t get it. But I’ll try too. I feel the need to bring this up, because I already mentioned how I truly believe that all things do happen for a reason, and usually, yeah things that happen could potentially be a blessing or a lesson, but what if its neither? And you still don't know exactly what it is? Could that be why you are unable to move forward, and is the only reason we are able to accept things and move on, because we actually learned something from them? So obviously, if we haven't moved on is it because it truly is a blessing? I can relate to that. So how do you know exactly if it was a lesson? Just because you learned that you two aren't meant to be? Or that you lear...