Epiphany Tiffany

T hey say that the rear view mirror is smaller than the windshield because what’s in front of you is more important than what’s behind, but when you’re en route to a progressive direction somehow you seem to focus on what you’re leaving behind. And while moving forward you find yourself looking back only because it’s comforting, but you don’t stop or turn around because you know going backwards will not take you to your next journey. And that journey happens the second you finally totally and completely allow your heart to heal. But in order to do that you got to get through the hardest part yet. The breakup grief. And grief happens in stages, only teaching us how to heal. So breakup grief works the same way, only to help you fully recuperate from the unbelievable breakup. The one that broke you into pieces only for you yourself to pick up. And that's when all the stages start to begin. The 5 Stages of Break Up Grief: Stage #1 Heartbreak. To get through all the stages of breakup gr...

"Don't downgrade your dream just to match your reality. Upgrade your conviction to match your destiny." - John Assaraf Resist the irresistible. And differentiate the impersonators. Evade from deception.  And absorb in all motivation.  Always be the inspiration. And never let the fear of rejection stop you from asking the question. Allow actions to define true perceptions. And don’t worry about what you can’t control, it’s not within your obligation. Allow yourself to always follow your heart. But do it gracefully and by being smart.  And always believe in yourself, No matter what type of cards you are dealt. Don’t ever underestimate,  always overcompensate. Just be who you are. Keep smiling even when you feel torn apart. And by all means when you love, do it with your entire heart.  Be kind and have compassion. You never know who you can help when you care about people in that kind of fashion.  Strive for success....

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"There would be a lot less ghosting if there was a lot less bullshitting"  -Unknown. This happens to everyone. You put yourself out there and get shut down. Which should be a positive right? As it’s better to know than to not know, or left wondering. But people now days don’t seem to have the decency to even respond. Leaving you left on read. Ask yourself how many times this has happened in this modern day and age. Probably a lot more than you’d actually think. Further discussion about this topic with my girlfriends, only carried on more gossip about this undeniable subject. Making me realize that this does actually happen more than we think. But why does it sting when it happens to us? Because in contrary, we are also doing it ourselves. So it only made me want to look further into the reasoning and the why. Because it’s just what I do. Turning a negative into a positive is my best trait and well, I’m going to do that for you wonderers that can’t fathom just why someone...

"The problem with assumptions is that we believe they are the truth" - Don Miguel Ruiz Assumption. There it is. That damn word. Why do we assume anyways? Is it because of the lack of truth behind what we are told? That the evaded truth gets replaced by our own assumptions, because we have no proof of what it actually is? Leaving us to only place assumptions for the lack of confirmations. And what if our very own assumptions aren’t even true? Yet we still find some type of belief in those? Then what? We are faced with security? With no doubt? With pure happiness and joy? I beg to differ. Because when we assume, usually it’s not in a positive aspect. Because if we have to assume anything, it's only because the truth wasn't granted, leaving us to author our very own. Because as the definition itself states. An assumption is only accepted as truth without any proof behind it. So how can we truly rely on our assumptions? Truth without proof. It’s like relying on the l...

Ever feel like people are judging you no matter what you do? Like you work out, feel great mentally, and have it all together. But then feel lonely because no one seems to understand you, but you. Then mentally you have a setback, and you feel like everything you've worked so hard for is crumbling down to the ground…OVER NOTHING. Of course we always want to seem like we have it all together, that we are happy and perfectly put, but sometimes we stumble and make mistakes. We are human. AND THAT IS PERFECTLY OKAY. DO YOU. It's okay to not always be okay. We are SO hard on ourselves and others. But the people who truly do care about us will always be there no matter what. Have you ever heard of that saying, only the true people in your life that do care can actually hear your silence? So it had me thinking. The quality of our life are not those around us, it's what's within us. So do you, boo. Maybe sometimes our very own illusions are the cause of our disillusionment. A...

“True love cannot be found where it does not exist, nor can it be denied where it does” -Torquato Tasso  Is love like gold? And how do you know whether or not its real or fake? Do you have to fall in and out of it to see the realness of it in the end? Or do you have to be  Not fooled by it  to figure it out? Besides what even differentiates real love and fake love anyway? Because unlike gold, there isn't a nitric acid test for love. Are we even in real love anyway? Because I truly feel like we aren't thanks to settling. And what really saddens me is that I have noticed so many people in these fake relationships that aren’t even happy or in love anymore, and are getting divorced and plain out mean to their “lovers” too much lately. What happened to that closeness? Is it completely gone? Does it even truly exist anymore? Sometimes I find myself wondering that. And that’s what worries me because I want to believe that it does. But it’s looking awful to society, because in re...

I'm totally over it. But I wasn't today. Maybe something inside, made me feel this way. I thought I was happy,  maybe I'm not. How did I get here?  I thought I forgot. Thanks to my conscious, I can never forget. All that it takes, is something simple to make our memories, begin again. Maybe it's wanting to feel something real. Taking me back, to the way you  made me feel. Or maybe seeing you,  brought on these retakes. I don't know what it is about you thats making me feel this way.  Cause the flashes start to replay, inside of my head. I can't even think of one moment of sadness during the times that we spent. Bringing more tears, As I try to switch off my thoughts. I can't even turn them off, by taking a shot. But the gin helps the pain start to go away. Although the memories of you linger inside of my brain. Instead of fighting them off, I let them take me back. With tears in my eyes,  I still smile and laugh. Gosh I can g...