Girl, He Likes You, He is Just Simple.
Just because you are in love with him doesn’t automatically mean that he is in love with you. You got to to be cool, calm, collective, and playful. Keep him interested. Because this is when he slacks off, but only because he knows he has you. The issue that many woman face when we are in that awkward stage of “dating” is where we are already one hundred percent ourselves with him because let’s face it, us women already know how we feel after the first kiss, but still feel awkward telling him how we feel because we're not quite there yet. Or maybe you already did tell him how you feel anyways because you are so damn stubborn, and you got a “Please Just Chill” response from him, and didn't ghost you, it’s not because he doesn’t want to hear it, he already knows how you feel based on your actions towards him!
Think about it, have you gone the whole day not saying anything to him, and he calls you for once? OBVIOUSLY it’s because he doesn’t want to lose you, and because ding ding ding!
HE LIKES YOU!
We women tend to talk way too much losing his interest, not in us, but in the conversations. The best way to keep his interest is by saying nothing, and DOING MORE. Does this make any sense?
Men are action creatures, they only like to talk when they are in the “getting to know you phase” but once that phase passes, and you both know each other, men just don’t talk as much, and of course if he is still talking to you after that, its once again, because he likes you, if he didn’t want to talk to you, HE WOULDN’T. Once again simple as that.
But, if you really want to know for sure because we women are too smart and must know, try to make yourself unavailable to him and see what happens. This could backfire, but, if he truly does care about you, he will reach out to you, girl give him a reason to miss you!
We need to stop being so emotional because men are so much simpler than we make them out to be. WHAT HE SAYS IS WHAT HE MEANS, to the tee, if you try to decode his words, you will end up being frustrated because he is no mystery. Actually, nothing about him is a mystery and the more you think it is the further away from him you’re going to get. They say women are mysterious creatures, so unless you’re dating a woman, you don’t have to try to solve any mysteries, men are simple. The easier you make it for him, the easier he will make it for you. Remember that.
Look, Great things take time, and we women need to learn to be patient. As much as you want to control EVERYTHING, give it up, and let it go, and you will find a true happiness inside you, to the point where you won’t even wonder or think about your feelings anymore, because you'll be so busy actually doing! Plus, whether you and he work out, well that’s not in your control anyways. So just have fun, be free, and enjoy the ride, because once you got him, well that’s a whole new blog post.
And Remember, those Disney movies with prince charming, and hallmark romances ARE NOT REAL LIFE!
Written by Tiffany Bales.
Think about it, have you gone the whole day not saying anything to him, and he calls you for once? OBVIOUSLY it’s because he doesn’t want to lose you, and because ding ding ding!
HE LIKES YOU!
We women tend to talk way too much losing his interest, not in us, but in the conversations. The best way to keep his interest is by saying nothing, and DOING MORE. Does this make any sense?
Men are action creatures, they only like to talk when they are in the “getting to know you phase” but once that phase passes, and you both know each other, men just don’t talk as much, and of course if he is still talking to you after that, its once again, because he likes you, if he didn’t want to talk to you, HE WOULDN’T. Once again simple as that.
But, if you really want to know for sure because we women are too smart and must know, try to make yourself unavailable to him and see what happens. This could backfire, but, if he truly does care about you, he will reach out to you, girl give him a reason to miss you!
We need to stop being so emotional because men are so much simpler than we make them out to be. WHAT HE SAYS IS WHAT HE MEANS, to the tee, if you try to decode his words, you will end up being frustrated because he is no mystery. Actually, nothing about him is a mystery and the more you think it is the further away from him you’re going to get. They say women are mysterious creatures, so unless you’re dating a woman, you don’t have to try to solve any mysteries, men are simple. The easier you make it for him, the easier he will make it for you. Remember that.
Look, Great things take time, and we women need to learn to be patient. As much as you want to control EVERYTHING, give it up, and let it go, and you will find a true happiness inside you, to the point where you won’t even wonder or think about your feelings anymore, because you'll be so busy actually doing! Plus, whether you and he work out, well that’s not in your control anyways. So just have fun, be free, and enjoy the ride, because once you got him, well that’s a whole new blog post.
And Remember, those Disney movies with prince charming, and hallmark romances ARE NOT REAL LIFE!
Written by Tiffany Bales.