Epiphany Tiffany

Ever feel like people try to influence you to believe what love actually is, what it should be, how it should feel, and what it is or is not based on their own version of it? My understanding is that love is special and its something real and true, because it's really only a feeling felt. I mean have you ever actually looked up the actual definition of it? The definition of Love in the dictionary is a noun that is an intense feeling of deep affection. And then its followed by the verb, which is to feel a deep romantic or sexual attachment to someone. So i'm a bit confused as to why people are so damn afraid to Love since the definition speaks for itself because we are all performing love actions, only we're not expressing them. Is that the problem here? And I'm sure you have all heard the famous  "Love is patient, love is kind"  scripture, that comes straight from the bible as the bibles definition of what love means. Which is another analogy as to what love ...

Why do we feel the need to decode our feelings, relationships, friendships and dating, and label them as a lesson or a blessing? And these connections we try so hard to understand in full aspect.  Why do people always say in the end that if it’s not a blessing, then it’s a lesson? I just don’t get it. But I’ll try too.  I feel the need to bring this up, because I already mentioned how I truly believe that all things do happen for a reason, and usually, yeah things that happen could potentially be a blessing or a lesson, but what if its neither? And you still don't know exactly what it is? Could that be why you are unable to move forward, and is the only reason we are able to accept things and move on, because we actually learned something from them? So obviously, if we haven't moved on is it because it truly is a blessing? I can relate to that.   So how do you know exactly if it was a lesson? Just because you learned that you two aren't meant to be? Or that you lear...

I feel the need to write about this topic, because it can be so vague. but really, communication, be vague? And how? This generation is all about social media, being on our cell phones every second, even at work we use our own personal cell phones just to manage types of work related tasks, yet communication is still one of the BIGGEST relationship failures to this day and age. I just don't understand it. The funny thing is that more than half of these communication doomed relationships begin on a Communication device, hints all those dating apps!!! This is frustrating because "the simple class woman" in a relationship, whether shes dating or committed, only wants to be able to communicate her day to day life with the one she loves, so if communication simmers down into cold soup, she ends up seeing it as doomed, and moves on to someone who actually does want to communicate. Because lets face it, no one wants to be in a muted relationship, and there are so many people...