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Social Media Life is NOT Real Life.

Social media lives only portray what society desires to display. Think about that. In real life, you cannot portray it the way you want it to be displayed. You can perceive to be a certain kind of person, but reality always presents itself one way or another. You might have control over how you look, what you have, and how you handle challenges and trials, but you sure as hell cannot edit and display parts and pieces of what you want your life look like in reality. We all have secrets, and that’s just a part of keeping things to ourselves confidentially. Not everything in our life needs to be publicized. Privacy is crucial to our beings. Some of the kindest people are going through the hardest trials no one knows about, and some of the meanest people are actually really kind inside. So it’s never safe to judge a person by their persona, just as you should never judge a person based off of their "Highlight Reel" Facebook or Instagram life display. I don't think anyone shou...

Embrace What We Cannot Change.

" The best of times and the worst of times, happen all the time." -Levi Lusko   Embrace life moments that we cannot change. Yes even the hard endings. Did you ever think it could be a new beginning? I truly believe that we should try to embrace what god brings and takes away in our lives. Although some of those things may hurt, that's what makes us human. It means we are capable of feeling all of these amazing and hurtful things, but ultimately it means we are alive! I wouldn’t ever trade feeling for living with the guarantee of not having too. Because maybe it’s the times when you are sad, when you remember the things that made you smile that lifts you up. Don’t focus on the hurt. Focus on the healing. Focus on the good moments that brought out happiness inside of you, even if its now gone. Change is constant, we can’t control what happens to us, we can only control what we decide to remember and take from it. So remember the good moments, remember the smil...

Anger

“I care not what others think of what I do, but I care very much about what I think of what I do! That is character”   -Theodore Roosevelt .  Some people may only see your anger and think that you have just gone mad.  Maybe its not a rage of aggressive repulsive outbursts. This anger is burning inside so when its released to the unknown, it may appear as hurtful, or vindictive, and mad. But like wildfires, there is always something that ignites the flame. The fire is the result to the ignite. Just. Like. Anger.    But maybe this anger is what drove you when you chose to be better, to be stronger, to move forward. The way I see it is it takes anger and fire inside to accept the challenges that life throws at you. Verses settling to only ignore and hide inside the shadows, allowing real vindictive souls to walk all over you. To step out of your comfort and actually do something like make a change takes bravery and courage.  And Anger . It’s a bat...

The Past.

You’re a part of the past, B ut keep coming back,  To remind me for what. Those days and nights Anguished thoughts of you, Kept me up.  Is it because you actually, Want to tell me goodnight. Or to finally admit that you were, Keeping someone else closer at night.  While I was stressing and worrying, You couldn’t be there for me, Even though you said, That you would be. Still believing, You gave a damn about me. When I was yours, But you weren’t mine. Don’t you remember. You had me believing I was happy,  Living in the mist of your lies. The first time you came, Back from the past and into my life,  I truly felt that our love, Came back alive. I believed everything you told me. Without doubt that, Our dreams would come true. But the answers were always right there  Starring at me inside of you. Until I finally saw the real reason why.  As much as I wanted, I realized, It wouldn’t be for the rest of my life. Because of your ...