Epiphany Tiffany

We grow up learning from the moment we are born. Like how to walk, how to tie our shoes, how to do certain things. Learning actions before emotions and feelings. So when we fall down and get hurt and cry in grade school, the nurse tells us to put a band-aid on it and go back to class. No one asks our feelings behind the hurt, learning to hide the emotions we are feeling. That can make any kid feel like feeling is wrong. But it carries on in our childhood. We learn how to evolve based on everyone around us. Going with the grade curve of our peers is what makes us acceptable to society. When really, if that vast majority of our peers are doing drugs, getting drunk and fucked, well then that's what we should all be doing according to society right? Not this girl. But when you are different, you stand out and people treat you differently because you don't fit in. So a young kid that doesn't really know any better will try to blend in just to fit into that mold. This is when w...

"When you're on your path, life conspires for you, not against you." Brene Brown. This is one of my top ten favorite quotes. Because in life there are so many things that conspire for us, and against us. Yet we only seem to gravitate towards what we want in our lives, not what life brings us. So we go against our fate forcing our own way based off of our very own emotions, verses patiently waiting for life to bring us what we are meant for. Gosh, I can't count how many times I ended up hurt because life just wasn't on my side of the spectrum when it came to my wants. But turns out, I only ended up hurt by conspiring against what life had planned for me. So it had me thinking...What's wrong with being patient? For taking a deep inhale to exhale out all of the toxic things in my life that don't conspire for me? What if we could throw out our very own expectations of what we think is meant to be for us, and just let life happen exactly how it should be? To ...