Epiphany Tiffany

"There would be a lot less ghosting if there was a lot less bullshitting"  -Unknown. This happens to everyone. You put yourself out there and get shut down. Which should be a positive right? As it’s better to know than to not know, or left wondering. But people now days don’t seem to have the decency to even respond. Leaving you left on read. Ask yourself how many times this has happened in this modern day and age. Probably a lot more than you’d actually think. Further discussion about this topic with my girlfriends, only carried on more gossip about this undeniable subject. Making me realize that this does actually happen more than we think. But why does it sting when it happens to us? Because in contrary, we are also doing it ourselves. So it only made me want to look further into the reasoning and the why. Because it’s just what I do. Turning a negative into a positive is my best trait and well, I’m going to do that for you wonderers that can’t fathom just why someone...

"The problem with assumptions is that we believe they are the truth" - Don Miguel Ruiz Assumption. There it is. That damn word. Why do we assume anyways? Is it because of the lack of truth behind what we are told? That the evaded truth gets replaced by our own assumptions, because we have no proof of what it actually is? Leaving us to only place assumptions for the lack of confirmations. And what if our very own assumptions aren’t even true? Yet we still find some type of belief in those? Then what? We are faced with security? With no doubt? With pure happiness and joy? I beg to differ. Because when we assume, usually it’s not in a positive aspect. Because if we have to assume anything, it's only because the truth wasn't granted, leaving us to author our very own. Because as the definition itself states. An assumption is only accepted as truth without any proof behind it. So how can we truly rely on our assumptions? Truth without proof. It’s like relying on the l...

Ever feel like people are judging you no matter what you do? Like you work out, feel great mentally, and have it all together. But then feel lonely because no one seems to understand you, but you. Then mentally you have a setback, and you feel like everything you've worked so hard for is crumbling down to the ground…OVER NOTHING. Of course we always want to seem like we have it all together, that we are happy and perfectly put, but sometimes we stumble and make mistakes. We are human. AND THAT IS PERFECTLY OKAY. DO YOU. It's okay to not always be okay. We are SO hard on ourselves and others. But the people who truly do care about us will always be there no matter what. Have you ever heard of that saying, only the true people in your life that do care can actually hear your silence? So it had me thinking. The quality of our life are not those around us, it's what's within us. So do you, boo. Maybe sometimes our very own illusions are the cause of our disillusionment. A...